Years ago someone told me about The Four Agreements. He said I had to read the book. It took me well over 3 years to do that. The Four Agreements are what I try to live by now. Not so easy. They give me direction at least. Reading the book puts them into perspective and I used to reread it and reread it, making or at least trying to make it a part of me. Hard to be us in the world and I am / we are a work in progress. Time to reread again.